Most little girls dream of their wedding from a young age. The dress, the venue and the catering, everything has to be just so. The reality is that no matter the size of the budget or the number of the guests, whether it is formal or informal, weddings are a stressful affair. Here are some tips on how to preserve your sanity while organizing for your big day.
Try to buy your best man or maid of honor a gift to show your appreciation for helping to make your wedding day a good one. This will make them feel honored for being part of your special day. Purchase the gift way before the wedding so you do not forget to do so with all the craziness of your big day.
The bride needs to pick a strong personality to be her maid or matron of honor. This individual needs to be able to delegate responsibilities and to make the bride feel calm if she is stressed. Picking a friend with no backbone to be a maid or matron of honor is just going to make the bride unhappy.
Ask around to make sure none of your guests have any food allergies! If they do, you should offer some foods which are 100% free of whatever it is that will set them off. Also, let them know if any food items DO contain the dangerous item so they can stay away from anything which might have touched it.
Buying locally can save you tons of money and help your community’s economy, too. Choosing local vendors means you won’t be charged for the extra distance they have to travel, which is especially important when it comes to catering. Using a local florist also means that you will receive a fresh bouquet on your wedding day.
A good piece of advice to keep in mind for weddings is to be sure not to try to haggle too much when it comes to costs of service. This is important because if you are seen as being pushy then you might not get the best results with your photographer, musicians, or caterers.
Regardless of whether you are going into a wedding with issues or have the perfect relationship, seek out premarital counseling. Counseling can help increase the chance of having a successful marriage and will teach you a lot of tips that you can put into practice before, during, and after your wedding.
If you are going to have a DJ at your wedding, ask to see them in action before the big day. You do not want to be stuck with an inexperienced or unskilled DJ whose lack of musical abilities could ruin the whole atmosphere of your wedding reception. Ask to watch them work at another event first.
These ideas should help you to have the day you have always dreamed of. Do try to remember that at the end of the day, the most important thing about a wedding is the act of exchanging your vows with the person you love and every other little detail is that, merely a detail.